The Stripper and the Celebrity

Okay, so a lot of people have been wondering what happened with that stripper. I actually ran into her the next night and gamed her some more, then it went really weird. I think it's true: strippers are insane.

Highlights:

I walked up and said, "Hey, how's my favorite trouble-making blonde doing?"

She laughed.

Me: "So my night's going weird. Tell me something fun to cheer me up."

Her: "I think everyone's night's going weird. It's a weird day."

Me: "No, that didn't do it. I know what'll cheer me up."

I put an arm around her waist and pull her close. I press my nose against her shoulder and gently inhale her scent as I drag my lips up her neck to her ear.

I step back.

Me: "Mmmm. Strawberries...(weird face) and ham."

Her: "Ham?"

Me: "I've got to be honest with you. I feel like being a jerk tonight. I'm going to tease you about all kinds of things."

She laughs and starts squeezing my bum.

Me: "Hey, hey! Hands off! If I let you touch me I'll have to let all the girls touch me!"

She laughs and squeezes my bum some more.

Later on things started getting awkward. She asked me to buy her and her stripper friend a drink. I told them I don't buy girls drinks.

Her: "Well, pretend you're a big spender tonight."

Me: (judging her and she knew it) "Are you telling me I need to buy your attention?"

Her: "Well... no... but... blah blah blah."

Anyways, I recovered from that awkwardness just through the strength of frame control and got her number, but then she started getting weird again and was downright rude to me when I was leaving the club later in the night.

That same night I opened some girls and the hot one turned out to be a celebrity from Miami. Had her loving me, had her friend loving me; think I lost her when I failed to escalate. We hung out for over an hour, laughing and having fun, but looking back my strategy of not being sexually aggressive with a girl (playing hard to get) failed here because this girl is used to guys failing to get sexual with her (due to her status). I'm pretty sure pure cave-manning would have been exactly what she wanted.



Update from a few weeks ago: went out to play the social proof game. It's like a video game where you get imaginary points for being in set and you lose points for walking and doing nothing. When I first started this stuff I had a lot of approach anxiety, but I finally realized that if I'm going to get blown out I'd rather get blown out by the hottest girls in the club because when things go well I want them to go well with the hottest girls in the club. So fast forward a few years and the pattern I've developed is I'll just chill until I see a girl I want to approach, then I'll go and talk to her. Knight is a social proof machine and a rolling dance party and I see with my own eyes the amazing things that happen to him, so I want some of that in my game. This particular night I went out and did a good job of opening everyone throughout the night. Just part of being social.