Okay, so here's the setting: my wing and I go out to a club. I see some really cute black girls outside smoking. They're with two guys. The guys are clearly trying to pick them up, so I don't have to befriend them. I go over, do an indirect opener. Ask them about something in the city. Get her talking. Intrigue her. We'll call her HBBooty (and her friend HBHat). HBBooty is a very reserved girl. Rockstar game wouldn't work on her, I know right away I need to do the thing that's easiest for me: be myself. Sounds dumb, but a lot of guys can't do it and it took me awhile to figure out how to do it fearlessly. A lot of beautiful girls are genuinely most attracted to guys who are just normal and themselves in their presence. Connecting with girls is just so easy for me: if they're open to it, it's the easiest kind of pick-up for me.
HBBooty and HBHat start telling me about which magazines HBBooty is going to be on the cover of in the upcoming months... I wasn't really attracted to her until I found out she was a model/celebrity. Every girl I meet has done some modelling or is a "model", but this girl was the real deal. Fashion, men's magazines, etc.
I compliment HBBooty on her nails... was going to follow up with a disqualifier, but luckily she interrupted me. That would have been shooting myself in the foot. This girl didn't need one, she was down-to-earth.
HBBooty's dude disappears to buy her a drink. She follows, saying she has to make sure he doesn't spike her drink, but tells HBHat to keep talking to me (because she wants me there when I get back). I talk to HBHat, she's ignoring her guy and asking me all kinds of questions. I decide to leave and reopen them later since, lately, I just don't put much effort into sets. I try to leave, HBHat wants me to stay. She introduces herself and shakes my hand. I tell her that she has warm hands and she starts rubbing my hands to warm them. I eventually leave.
I reopen them later and some other guy has his arm around HBBooty. I walk in, start talking to her. The guy tries to blow me out, I ignore him. Her and I are talking now. I introduce myself, she introduces herself. The guy feels awkward now and takes his hand away. In a few minutes he'll wander away. Her and I have our eyes locked on and a natural, connecting conversation ensues. I tell her about some of my short-term goals (the adventurous ones), I qualify her on being adventurous, ask where she's travelled and what her favourite place was.
Ultra-powerful moment, the kind that left her squirming in her pants: I tell her that I admire Indian weddings because the groom rides up on a horse, claims his bride and carries her off... and that appeals to the ancient warrior king in me. The reaction in her eyes as she associated me with an ancient warrior king... such a good feeling for me. Here's a tip, guys: more important to her than how she sees you is how you see yourself and how other people see you. Work that.
At this point the dude who had his arm around her returns and puts his arm around her, tries to whisper something. We both ignore him I continue to describe to her the PG-rated ways she could pleasure me. The dude leaves.
At this point we're shivering in the Canadian cold. I mean, I'M frickin' freezing and I never get cold. This poor girl was dying in order to keep talking to me. (Quick tip: if a girl will talk to you, she's interested... if she'll talk to you even though she's physically uncomfortable, she's really interested.)
I spent a lot of time in connection phase with this girl. This is important. The next day when the drink wears off and she's back in logic mode and stressed under the demands of her day, she'll forget about the cute, funny guy she was attracted to, but she'll remember the guy she had a deep, rare connection with.
I take her number, arrange a day two, she begged me to call her. I offered to take her inside and help her find her friends. I said goodbye to HBHat who grabbed my hands tightly and had so much pleasure looking into my eyes. She hinted that they might follow my wing and me to the next club, but they never did.
The last thing I said to HBBooty (aside from promising to see her again) was thanking her for being interesting and intelligent. She laughed and said, "thanks." At which point I praised her ability to take a compliment.
My thoughts: my kino was weak, I hadn't turned on the primal switches with touch and space invasion. She was kinoing me big time, which should have been my invitation to pump up the heat.
The rest of the night at the other club was crappy: in the past when I've opened and truly connected (not "game" connect) with the hottest girls I've wanted to stop sarging for the night. So we went to the other club where I did nothing, even to the detriment of my wing. Unacceptable.
From now on, I open hard all the time no matter what great accomplishment is under my belt.
Really, I should have stayed at the first club, isolated HBBooty teased her with kisses until she forces the make-out, then extracted. She lived down the street, she told me this because she wanted me to escalate there. (Actually, based on some of the convo we had on how adventurous she was, I should have pulled her into the bathroom and banged her to her kinky heaven.) It wasn't unil I got to the other club that I realized I had no real reason to leave. Hell, the simplest thing would have been to bring her and HBHat with us if I really needed to leave.
This is what I'm learning right now: the little things that sharpen up your closing percentage.
The best part of this set was the impenetrable nature of it.
The logistics were against me: surrounded by guys, came with some of them, HBHat in too much of a party-star mode to really talk to, HBBooty being pestered by some loser and going to her happy place where communication was even more difficult, some co-worker guy trying hard to blow me out, creepy suitors trying to blow me out. Plow, baby, plow, because you're the superstar.
Next time my sarging goals will be: open everyone and create sexual feelings in them through touch, proximity and spoken word.
Now that I'm on a quest to tighten up my closing ratio, this is important. No more Day 2s... I want it that night... in the bathroom.
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