Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Good with women or great with women? Your choice.

Some girls think shyness is cute.

Some women think assholes are great.

Some girls like super-serious guys.

There really is a girl for every guy, that guy just needs to see what's in front of his face and act on it. Most guys don't have to change very much about themselves to get a girl's attention. After a period of trying pick-up techniques they find that they now talk to girls frequently, usually laughing, and feel great about that. What's not to feel great about? A girl who's enjoying your company and laughing is a sexual possibility.

This is the point where most guys jump off the seduction education. They've reached a point where they enjoy themselves with women and now and then close the deal. This is a great accomplishment and it does enhance the quality of many men's lives, but this is where you need to decide if you're going to be good with women or be great with women.

You need to decide which thought process do you want a girl to have.

"This feels nice, he's fun to be around. I'd be willing to have sex with him."

or

"I want him."

You can achieve the first one by pushing to the edges of your boundaries. You achieve the second one by brutally restructuring your boundaries.

If you have trouble being a leader, or find it difficult to challenge a girl, or don't like to let women get close to you, or find your psyche absolutely resistant to conveying a high-power personality you can still accomplish option one.

To get option number 2 you need to break down all your psychological barriers. You need to undo a lifetime's worth of conditioning, whatever it is which prevents you from walking like the lord and master of your surroundings. This is the inner game that is the foundation of McMaax's teachings. Once you convey this quality, this personal state of being, you will have the potential to do anything.

So the choice is yours.